Family photo of our children about the time we became empty nesters.
Raising four children was anything but easy. Life was challenging, money was tight, and there were days I wasn’t sure how we would make it all work. But no matter what, we did the best we could with what we had, and looking back, I wouldn’t trade the years I had with my children for anything.
When our children were young, we tried to make time for vacations. At first, we camped–because it was affordable–but quickly learned that camping wasn’t much of a vacation for mom. While everyone else was off exploring, etc., I was stuck cooking over a fire, keeping things organized, and making sure the little ones were safe. It was exhausting. So, we started saving for trips that allowed all of us to relax and enjoy the time together.
Those savings turned into unforgettable experiences. We took trips to the zoo, Yellowstone National Park, the Grand Canyon, the Hoover Dam, and many more places. Seeing the world through our children’s eyes was worth every penny and every sacrifice we made to get there.
As much as I loved our family vacations, I truly cherished watching our children succeed in their sports and hobbies the most. Whether it was a game, a competition, or a performance. I loved cheering them on. Those moments were some of my proudest as a mother. But when they left home, all of that stopped. The days were emptied. The house was quiet. The routine that had filled our lives for so many years was suddenly gone.
Now, I find myself looking forward to those same moments with our grandchildren. The excitement of watching them grow and succeed brings back the joy I once felt with our own children. It’s a season of life; while it’s different, it’s just as meaningful.
For any parents going through the early years–tired, overwhelmed, and wondering if they are doing enough–just know that these days, as hard as they are, will one day be the memories you cherish the most. Hold on to them and soak up every moment. They go by faster than you think.
